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For every guy out there who’s clearly not a gent, there’s a girl that parallels him. Don’t be distraught when you run into these girls. For the most part, there will be and is no reason to have these girls in your life. They are waste of time. I’ve run into my fare share of them over my short life so far. They sometimes may be good looking, the sometimes may be a different person when you first meet them, and then show their true colors to you. Know when to read these girls and extricate them from your life. Keeping a positive mentality on life can dwindle with individuals like this.
The approach
One of my previous interactions with a girl in this category was started off with a problem. They were spouting about a break up. I’m a problem solver so I got pulled in, not to give advice as most men do, but to help give perspective as to the guy’s thought process. They smile, ask when I’m drinking while drinking water. A clear sign they just want a drink. I knew I was with one of these girls for the reason that it would be a bad person to have in my life for the reason that when I spoke, she clearly wasn’t listening. If this EVER happens to you, never let it slide. The moment they ask a question, and then leave your answer mid sentence, they have a different end goal. Don’t interact with them unless you call them out on this. Turn your 25% asshole up in this situation if you want to interact with them. They brought their asshole with them, so to not bring yours is detrimental like a knife in a gun fight.
The Other Guy is Who I Want
If you’re interacting with a girl, and after a little while she starts to spout off about another guy, eject yourself. If she’s not a girl that you feel falls under this category, then you missed a step. Let’s be clear here, you’ve interacted with her for a certain time period and she chose to bring up a subject like that. It means you missed the social hook point. I only say this because she would be more interesting in you if you made yourself more interesting, or you said something to make yourself unattractive.
No, Seriously, Call me One
There are girls out there that want to be belittled, sworn at, mistreated and physically abused. I’ve met a couple. They are rare, and need to be left for the other guys. The only people that should fix these girls are professionals. They obviously have a problem that they need to deal with. I remember the last one I ran into, and she was interested in a guy who didn’t care about her, and then began to badger me about why people don’t respect her. The 25% wanted to say something about her IQ level, but the gent in me just ejected myself from the establishment. If she’s there, it says something about her place of choice, and the company she’s interested in.
GwR
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