For every guy out there who’s clearly not a gent, there’s a girl that parallels him. Don’t be distraught when you run into these girls. For the most part, there will be and is no reason to have these girls in your life. They are waste of time. I’ve run into my fare share of them over my short life so far. They sometimes may be good looking, the sometimes may be a different person when you first meet them, and then show their true colors to you. Know when to read these girls and extricate them from your life. Keeping a positive mentality on life can dwindle with individuals like this.

The approach

One of my previous interactions with a girl in this category was started off with a problem. They were spouting about a break up. I’m a problem solver so I got pulled in, not to give advice as most men do, but to help give perspective as to the guy’s thought process. They smile, ask when I’m drinking while drinking water. A clear sign they just want a drink. I knew I was with one of these girls for the reason that it would be a bad person to have in my life for the reason that when I spoke, she clearly wasn’t listening. If this EVER happens to you, never let it slide. The moment they ask a question, and then leave your answer mid sentence, they have a different end goal. Don’t interact with them unless you call them out on this. Turn your 25% asshole up in this situation if you want to interact with them. They brought their asshole with them, so to not bring yours is detrimental like a knife in a gun fight.

The Other Guy is Who I Want

If you’re interacting with a girl, and after a little while she starts to spout off about another guy, eject yourself. If she’s not a girl that you feel falls under this category, then you missed a step. Let’s be clear here, you’ve interacted with her for a certain time period and she chose to bring up a subject like that. It means you missed the social hook point. I only say this because she would be more interesting in you if you made yourself more interesting, or you said something to make yourself unattractive.

No, Seriously, Call me One

There are girls out there that want to be belittled, sworn at, mistreated and physically abused. I’ve met a couple. They are rare, and need to be left for the other guys. The only people that should fix these girls are professionals. They obviously have a problem that they need to deal with. I remember the last one I ran into, and she was interested in a guy who didn’t care about her, and then began to badger me about why people don’t respect her. The 25% wanted to say something about her IQ level, but the gent in me just ejected myself from the establishment. If she’s there, it says something about her place of choice, and the company she’s interested in.

GwR

She’s gorgeous and sitting at the bar facing out with a drink in hand. All the guys look at her as she smiles and has her girlfriends on either side of her. They talk here and there but don’t say much due to the loud noise of the club. She notices all the guys checking her out, but doesn’t take interest in any of them. She humbly waits for someone to talk to her that she has hopes to be good looking and interesting.

He’s standing with a group of his friends next to the dance floor not too far from our girl at the bar. His good looks capture the glances of girls in the room. He’s been getting it for so long that he doesn’t even notice it happening. All of his ex’s have approached him in the past and he hasn’t had the need to work hard to meet anyone in his life. They approach him.

They do happen to notice each other. They keep exchanging glances waiting for either to make the approach. Fifteen minutes go by and the looks become more frequent but still nothing happens. Our girl’s friends notice her and make it more obvious for him to make the approach. His guy friends talk about how awesome he is that a hot girl is checking him out. An hour goes by and they pass each other without saying one word.

These ten’s will never truly meet because of blatant stupidity. Our guy doesn’t want to do the work and is being blocked by his fear, although he will deny it. The girl won’t make the approach because she plays by the rules. Plus she gets approached over five times a day so to ask her to approach him is completely absurd. Sadly they leave the club with someone else who approaches them both even though they both knew who they wanted to leave with.

It’s 2008 and, we the gentlemen of the world know, the times have changed. If are going to debate if we pay the bill on a date, if we are going to debate if women and men are to be paid equally in an office, if we are to debate if the women and men have a specific role at home; we say we should be equal. So in this one case, in this one situation in life, I’d black card both of them. This would probably be the one time I’d get mad at a girl for not doing something about it. You both can face rejection, but until you actually get rejected or accepted, you’ll just be a failure. We’ve all been here. I debate creating a specific page of men who never approached girls even though she gave him all the signs in the world for him to say hello. Just make the approach or you’ll just be some guy/girl who settled on something that came to you.

GwR