Let us be realistic about this topic. The gentleman and the alpha male is what makes up the male species. The alpha male is our organic origin from when we were once cavemen. At one point we had to fight for what we wanted to eat. The evolution of that portion of us is what makes us lie, cheat, steal, actions of lust and violence. The Gentleman is the growth of our mental capabilities over time. Believe me that a gentleman is purely mental. I know most men find it difficult or uncomfortable to wear a suit every day, or even dress somewhat well for the weekend but that’s not all it takes to be a gentleman. Our mental persona has both the alpha and the gentleman inside. You could say it is a never ending battle between good and bad. Nay I say, I believe that the alpha is as much as being the best gentleman as how we refine ourselves. There are many men out there that live in the timid mentality of life and do not tap into their natural alpha. They have it, but have an ever growing fear that overpowers it, or finds it to be below them. I believe both of these thoughts are incorrect. The fear is not something that we should allow to run our lives. Fear is an emotion that all being are created with. A dog you’ve never encountered before will base its actions off of its own fear. To say that you will not step up to something as small as talking to a women you don’t know (this falls into the zero alpha timid gent) is reducing yourself to the dogs level. When someone feels that all thoughts the come from the alpha of the male are part of the caveman we once were is also a reduction of the possibilities this individual can have. The alpha portion is what gives you the feeling of attraction to another female, what helps you defend your friends and what stops people from walking over you. Of course, the perfect balance between the two is something we take our whole life to figure out. This is just what I have come to realize about it.